B-Vibe Anal Massage & Education Set Review

A toolbox for “I tried anal and it did nothing” people

When a Reader Asked “Am I Missing Something?”

Not long ago, I opened my inbox to find a message from a follower that really struck a chord. He wrote: “Can I get some advice on anal play? I have seen people write positive things about it, so I bought a small soft plug and a vibrating toy, but it has never felt actually pleasurable. It is just a sensation in a place I am not used to. It does not make me erect and I do not see how it could make me cum. Is it a skill issue or am I missing something?”

Short answer: no, your butt is not broken. You are not missing a magical hole. You just need better tools, better pacing, and an understanding that “feels different” has to become “feels good” before it becomes “makes me cum.”

Reading this, my heart went out to him. I remembered feeling exactly that way when I first experimented with anal play, curious but confused, wondering if something was wrong with me because I was not immediately feeling the mind blowing pleasure others talked about. I replied with some hard won advice from my own experience: do not rush to insert anything right away. Instead, start slow at the entrance. I suggested he play around the rim of his backdoor first, either using a well lubed finger (or a partner’s finger) or even just pressing a small toy against the opening, without pushing in. Do this while you are already turned on, for example masturbate at the same time or have your partner stimulate you. The idea is to let your brain register a new, teasing sensation and go “ooo, this is different and feels good” rather than expecting instant ecstasy deep inside.

I also told him that full insertion can take time to become pleasurable. The ultimate goal for many penis owners is to find the prostate (often nicknamed the P-spot, the male version of the G-spot), but hitting it might feel very weird at first, almost like you have to poop or just an alien pressure, until, boom, you get that prostate orgasm. Trust me, the first time you get there, you will know, it is a whole new kind of climax. I admitted to him candidly that I personally cannot enjoy anal play unless I am already hard and actively aroused. If I am not turned on, it just does not do much for me either. And of course I added my final encouragement: always start small, even just a fingertip, and use lots of lube. Patience and relaxation are key.

He thanked me and said he would give it another go. That exchange got me thinking about how many people out there might be in the same boat, intrigued by anal play but not sure how to make it feel good. There is only so much advice I can give over DMs. Would not it be great if there was a beginner friendly kit with all the right tools and info to guide someone through those early stages of anal exploration? Funny enough, such a thing does exist: the B-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set. I got my hands (and other parts) on this kit, and in this review I am going to share how it helped address exactly the challenges my follower described. If you have been hesitant or clueless about backdoor play, buckle up, we are going on a little journey with plenty of lube and laughter along the way.

You can find the kit here if you want to see what I am talking about while you read:
B-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set: https://bvibe.pxf.io/raAL3B

And yes, that is an affiliate link. It helps me keep testing weird, wonderful things so you do not have to blindly guess. Use code TRISTAN at checkout for 20 percent off B-Vibe anal toys, and as a bonus you will receive a 4 oz water based anal lube and a 4 oz organic toy cleaner as a free gift with your purchase.

What this kit actually is

This is not one toy and some marketing fluff. The Anal Massage and Education Set is a full starter toolbox that combines:

• A Le Wand Petite external vibrator
• A curved silicone attachment that turns that wand into an internal toy
• A weighted Snug Plug 2 butt plug
• Finger cots and gloves
• A lube applicator
• A douche
• A clean up towel
• A storage bag
• And an actual guide book on anal massage and pleasure

All of that is bundled into one kit here:
B-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set: https://bvibe.pxf.io/raAL3B

On paper it looks like a sex nerd starter pack. In practice it is surprisingly practical, especially if you are someone who has tried anal a bit and gone “ok, but why do people rave about this.”

Also, price wise, it is actually pretty affordable for what you get, especially with the code they set up for us:

Use code TRISTAN at checkout for 20 percent off B-Vibe anal toys and you get two bottles as a gift with purchase, a 4 oz water based anal lube and a 4 oz organic toy cleaner.

Beyond the price, the other thing that stands out is quality. Every item in this kit feels like high end gear, not random Amazon mystery silicone. The materials are smooth, body safe, and do not have that weird cheap smell or texture. This is the difference between a real latex catsuit and a shiny plastic garbage bag from a knockoff shop claiming to sell Catwoman’s original outfit. With anal toys especially, I would never recommend saving a few bucks on unknown materials that might irritate you. This kit costs more than a ten dollar plug, but it is built to last and to treat your body right.

So with the discount, freebies, and the fact that this is high end gear, the value side makes sense. But let us talk about how it actually feels to use.

How I approach anal play, so you know where I am coming from

Before I dive into each piece, context.

I am not new to anal play. I know where my prostate is. I know the difference between “oh god I have to poop” and “oh god do not stop.” I also know that for me personally, anal is not a standalone activity. If I am not already aroused, already hard, already being touched in other ways, it does nothing for me. If I just stick something up there cold, my brain goes “cool, a thing” and that is about it.

That was the gist of the advice I gave that commenter:

• Start at the entrance, not full insertion (this can sometimes be enough if your mind is in that space or not, it’s ok NOT to go all the way in)
• Pair it with stroking or a stroker so your brain gets a “this is new and feels good” signal
• Find the G or P spot slowly, and accept that it will feel weird before it feels good
• Always start small, even with your own finger

I tested this kit with that mindset. Not as my first butt adventure but as someone who knows what works for them and wants to see if this set can actually help people find their way into that kind of experience.

Warm up: finger cots, lube, and the edge of the entrance game

The least glamorous pieces in this kit might be the most important.

The finger cots and gloves are perfect for the “do not insert yet, just play at the edge” stage. I rolled a finger cot on, loaded up with lube, and did exactly what I always tell people to do:

Just circle the entrance. Light pressure, little presses, no forcing. At the same time, I was either stroking or using another toy up front.

That combo still works, kit or no kit. What the kit adds is:

• Hygiene peace of mind so you are not thinking about nails or mess
• A mental permission slip that says yes, this is a normal way to explore, you are not weird

It sounds small, but if you are anxious, you will not relax. If you do not relax, nothing feels good. The simple, boring stuff in this box helps with that more than any one big toy.

The wand and curved attachment

Micro vibrations, awkward handle, surprisingly useful.

Let us talk about the Le Wand Petite and the curved attachment, because they are kind of the heart of the massage part.

The wand itself is not the most powerful vibrator I have ever used. This is not a wall socket monster. It lives in the constant, faster, micro vibration zone. Think consistent buzz, not earth shattering rumble. For anal, that actually works in its favor.

On its own, the wand is great for:

• External massage around the entrance
• Perineum stimulation
• General body stuff, neck, lower back, thighs

What it is not is a blow your brains out in three seconds power toy. It is more like a really persistent tap on your nervous system.

Then you add the curved silicone attachment.

That attachment is where the kit becomes anal education and not just anal adjacent. It turns the wand into a curved internal toy meant to reach the G spot or P spot. You lube it, you lube yourself, you insert slowly, and you let those micro vibrations wake up areas that might have been asleep.

My experience:

• The curve does what it is supposed to do and it absolutely finds the right zone once you figure out your angle.
• The wand handle with the attachment on can feel a little awkward to hold if you are trying to reach around yourself solo. It is doable, just not sexy graceful. Expect some T-rex arm moments.
• Lube does get everywhere, glad they included a towel!
• The vibrations are not brute force strong. They do not bulldoze you into an orgasm. They are more like a constant “hello hello hello” on the P or G spot.

I did notice that on the very highest setting the wand’s vibration got a bit buzzier, a higher pitched vibration, than I personally like. I do prefer a rumbly, deep vibration for penis play. If you are used to big plug in wand massagers, the Petite’s top power might feel a tad weak or surface level in comparison. However, for anal purposes, I actually did not need or want a super jackhammer vibe.

That might not sound dramatic, but it is exactly the kind of stimulation I recommend for people who said “a plug and a vibe did nothing.” Because it is on that internal spot long enough for your brain to go from “weird pressure” to “oh, that is different” to “do not stop.”

For me, pairing that internal buzz with front stimulation is what tips it over the edge. Alone, it would probably just be interesting. Combined with everything else, it adds depth and that “my body is lighting up in more than one place” feeling.

And that is kind of the point of this set. It is not about one hero toy. It is about stacking sensations in a way that finally clicks.

The weighted plug

Small size, big effect.

The weighted Snug Plug 2 is, for me, the standout of the kit.

On the surface it is a fairly small silicone plug. Nothing scary, nothing extreme. If you look at the dimensions on the product page you are squarely in beginner friendly territory.

Where it gets fun is what you cannot see: the two weights inside.

Once it is in, those weights move when you move. You bend, they roll. You walk, they shift. You clench, they push back. It is subtle, but the effect is really nice. It turns “I have a thing in my butt” into “I have this low key fullness and random little nudges of pressure that keep catching me off guard in a good way.”

Vibrating the plug externally with the wand while it is inside is also a really nice combo. The weights respond and it becomes this weird but satisfying layered sensation.

I will be honest, I do not have a soft spot for just any butt plug. Most plugs are either too boring to bother or too much work for not enough payoff. This one hits that sweet spot where it is easy to get in, easy to keep in, and actually adds something to a session rather than just ticking a box.

If you buy this kit and only fall in love with one piece, there is a good chance it will be this plug.

You can see the kit with the plug here:
B-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set: https://bvibe.pxf.io/raAL3B

The prep tools

Douche, lube applicator, and why they matter more than you think.

If you are brand new to anal, the sexiest thing in the box is probably not the douche. But it should be in the running.

Two notes from my experience:

• The douche is basic, but it works. It is there to give you peace of mind. If you are worried about mess, you are not going to relax. If you do not relax, you will clench, and then everything feels like pressure and “I have to go to the bathroom.” Being able to rinse and feel like you have emptied things out a bit is a big mental and physical help.
• The lube applicator is underrated. Putting lube on the outside of a toy is one thing. Getting some lube inside you, past the first ring of muscle, is another. The “I need to poop” feeling often comes from dry, unprepared tissue plus sudden pressure. The more internally lubed you are, the less that shows up.

Vibrations, especially internal ones, can absolutely trigger that bathroom feeling at first. This kit made me confront that again in a good way. There were moments with the wand attachment where I went “ok, that is a little intense, I need to breathe.” Between the douche and the internal lube, that intensity moved from “did I make a mistake” to “this feels like my body processing a new kind of stimulation” pretty quickly.

I do not recommend skipping these tools if you are a beginner. They are not optional add ons. They are part of why this set works for people who have tried anal and felt nothing but confusion.

Clean up, storage, and the boring stuff that makes it easier to actually use

Everything in this kit is easy to wash. Silicone, smooth surfaces, nothing too fussy.

The towel is one of those “this seems silly until you need it” things. It is great for keeping your bed from turning into a lube slip and slide, and for giving you a landing pad for toys mid session. Afterward, you wash everything, dry it, and it all disappears into the storage bag.

For me, that matters. If a setup is annoying to prep and annoying to put away, you use it less. This is very grab and go. Bag comes out, toys come out, you do your thing, everything goes back in. Done.

The guide book: knowledge is pleasure

The last piece, and honestly one of the reasons I even care about B-Vibe as a company, is the educational side.

The guide that comes with this kit is not a flimsy pamphlet. It is a real guide to anal massage and pleasure. I absolutely love that B-Vibe included a physical book. In an age where we often have to search the internet for reliable sex info, and sift through a lot of sketchy advice, here you get a curated, expert approved guide right in the box. It is like having a friendly coach on your nightstand.

The book covers everything you would want to know as a beginner, and even things you might not have thought to ask. It starts with the basics: anatomy of all genders, so you learn where the prostate is, what the rectum looks like, and so on in a non intimidating way. It goes over lube types, silicone versus water based, why silicone toys need water based lube, and how to clean toys and yourself. Then it moves into techniques: how to warm up, echoing a lot of what I advised my follower, like starting at the entrance and breathing, positions for anal play, solo and with partners, and even how to incorporate toys like the ones in the kit step by step.

What impressed my nerdy side were the myth busting sections. The guide debunks common misconceptions about anal sex. For example, it addresses the “will it hurt or damage me” fears with facts and tips to prevent any harm. There are also sections on finding the prostate for penis owners and on anal play for people with vaginas, so it is truly inclusive. No matter your body configuration, you will find tailored advice.

One of my favorite moments was when I had a partner, who was peeking at the kit with great curiosity, skim through the guide. His eyes lit up at the section about P-spot play. He remarked how cool it was that a company actually put so much educational info in with a product. He said it felt affirming to see a big chunk dedicated to anal pleasure for men and AMAB folks, since a lot of toy guides are more vagina focused. I agree. The tone of the book is sex positive and shame free. It basically says “hey, anal play can be awesome for anyone, here is how to do it enjoyably.” Reading it feels like a friendly workshop run by a chill sex educator rather than a clinical manual. There are even diagrams and fun illustrations, which make the learning part feel engaging.

In practice, I found myself referring to the guide book a couple of times, even as someone not brand new to anal. For example, I picked up a new tip on relaxing my breathing when inserting something, and a section on prostate massage techniques gave me ideas for how to angle the wand attachment better. If I had had this book back when I first tried anal play, I probably would have saved myself some trial and error and frustration. It is the kind of resource I want to shove into the hands of every newbie who messages me “am I doing this wrong” because it literally answers that. It shows that if it is not feeling great yet, you are not broken or missing something, you might just need a different approach or a little practice. With this kit, you have both the tools and the knowledge to find what works for you. That, to me, is the epitome of sex positive empowerment.

If you are curious, you can check it out here again:
B-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set: https://bvibe.pxf.io/raAL3B

Pros and cons from my actual experience

Pros

• It is a genuinely good beginner kit. Not condescending, not cheap, just well thought out.
• Everything has a purpose and everything works. Nothing feels like filler plastic to bulk up the box.
• The weighted plug is excellent. Comfortable, interesting, and actually worth keeping in your regular rotation.
• The wand is not a powerhouse, but the micro vibrations do what they need to do for anal and G or P spot massage.
• The curved attachment is a great starting point for internal exploration, even if it is a little awkward to hold.
• The prep tools, douche and lube applicator, directly address the “this feels like I need to go to the bathroom” issue and help you work through it.
• The guide book is solid and sex positive, and absolutely something I would hand to someone who asked me the question that started this review.
• The overall quality of the materials is high, body safe silicone and well made components that feel nothing like cheap mystery toys from random online shops.
• With the TRISTAN discount and the free lube and toy cleaner, the price for everything you get is honestly very reasonable.

Cons

• The wand will not satisfy people who are addicted to extremely strong, rumbly vibrations. It is more of a gentle insistent buzz.
• The wand plus curved attachment can be a bit awkward to hold solo. You will probably have at least one “how do I angle my body for this” moment.
• The douche is basic. It works, but if you are deep into anal prep culture you might eventually upgrade to something with nicer valves.
• If you already own a good wand and a plug you love, the value is more about the full kit and guide than about any one life changing new toy.
• This is still a starter kit. If you are already happily playing with large plugs or heavy prostate toys, this will feel tame.

Who I think this is for

If you are that person who bought a random plug and a random vibrator, tried them once, felt nothing but “okay and now what,” this set is for you.

If you are curious about anal but you want a roadmap, not a dare, this set is for you.

If you are already into anal and you want a neat little toolbox plus a genuinely great weighted plug and some extra education, this can still be worth it, especially on sale with the TRISTAN code.

And if you are someone who just likes sex positive, shame free, “let us figure out what feels good for you” vibes, this is very on brand.

If you want to grab it, or just see everything I talked about in one place, you can find it here:
B-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set: https://bvibe.pxf.io/raAL3B

Use code TRISTAN for 20 percent off B-Vibe anal toys and you will get a 4 oz water based anal lube and a 4 oz organic toy cleaner thrown in too.

Final thoughts: explore at your own pace and enjoy the journey

Trying out the B-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set has been a rewarding experience for me, not just physically, though yes, hooray for new kinds of orgasms, but also in reinforcing the idea that pleasure is a journey, not a race.

If you are anal curious but have felt intimidated or disappointed in the past, I truly believe a kit like this can be a game changer. It addresses the exact “skill issue” my follower was worried about by providing both the skills, through the guide and gradual tools, and the quality gear to practice with.

My advice to anyone venturing into anal play, with or without this kit, is simple: go at your own pace, stay relaxed, and keep a sense of humor about it. It is normal if it does not feel amazing at first try. It is okay if you do not orgasm from prostate play right away, or ever. There is no anal achievement you must unlock. The goal is to explore what feels good to you.

What I love about this set is that it encourages curiosity and experimentation in a safe, informed way. It is like a gentle coach whispering, “take your time, enjoy the sensations, and see what happens.” If something does not feel great, you can dial it back, switch back to just the finger cot or a smaller toy. If something feels awesome, you can build on it, add vibration, try a new position. You are in control of your experience.

If you have been on the fence about anal play, consider this a friendly nudge to give it another try, maybe with a little help from B-Vibe. The Anal Massage and Education Set has earned a spot in my recommended list for beginners because it is not about pressuring you to love huge plugs or extreme kink. It is about empowering you to explore pleasure on your own terms. And that, to me, is what sex positivity is all about.

So, to wrap up: I am thankful my follower asked that question, because it led me to share all this with you. If you are ready to take the next step, or first step, in your anal journey, you can check out the B-Vibe Anal Massage and Education Set here:
https://bvibe.pxf.io/raAL3B

Use code TRISTAN at checkout for 20 percent off B-Vibe anal toys, and as a bonus you will receive a 4 oz water based anal lube and a 4 oz organic toy cleaner as a free gift with your purchase.

Happy exploring, stay curious, and remember: it is absolutely okay if anal play does not rock your world immediately. Learning what you enjoy is half the fun. With patience, the right tools, and a positive mindset, you just might find yourself saying “ooo, this does feel good” the next time around.