I don't know about all of that crazy shit...
Telling someone to chill the fuck out when it comes to things that really don't affect them as much as they like to portray and actively persecuting someone for the same thing that really doesn't affect you are two entirely different things. There's no way you can sit here and pretend it's the same fucking thing. In that same sense of logic you just spewed, (whether it's your actual beliefs or just starting a discussion) could be spun around to say those that are against such senseless persecution have every right to destroy and eradicate those that do? Certainly not a way to solve anything. Being annoyed and irked at someone else's beliefs and orientation is one thing but to actively pursue and punish those for not being in line with you is some ignorant bullshit. If you truly believe these people are going to hell at the end of the day, who the fuck cares.. If you're right, they'll get what's coming to them, how is it anyone's place to step in and punish for "god"? So I just cheated on my wife and beat my kid but like you're gay and that's so much worse so I'm going to hunt you down and torture you so I get to feel better about myself and pretend I'm perfect and do no wrong because I follow god? Fuck. That. Shit.
Actively seeking out and hating someone can not be compared to tolerance and dealing with people believing in different things.
See Religion is supposed to be about opening up the eyes of others to their beliefs. But the way it is now, is very much in line with Belial's point here. It isn't so much of an open arms, look to the light, it is more of you are going to hell, better fix your shit so I can stop nagging you and making your shitty life shittier.